Children Paying Price of Violence, A girl reaches puberty at the age of 9
Enab Baladi Issue # 81 – Sunday August 8, 2013
That’s the first thing Yara, a 9-year-old girl, said to her mother in the morning when she noticed that she was bleeding.
Yara’s father was killed during the Daraya Massacre last August, and ever since she has been suffering with her family to secure their basic expenses. After the outset of the last ongoing military campaign on the city, they became financially insecure; the family lost its house and the kids had to drop out of school.
Yara’s mom was shocked when she saw the blood on her daughter’s clothes; she rushed her to an obstetrician, who told the mother that it is abnormal uterine bleeding, and that “her medical situation is bad and her period will not stop”. According to the doctor, Yara’s medical situation may inflict on her psychological problems, and the “hormonal imbalance” may cause her growth to cease early and compromise her final adult height.
The mother did not give up helping her daughter; she took her to another specialist who confirmed that Yara’s psychological problem caused by the death of her father during the massacre is severely aggravated. The doctor prescribed Yara 6 injections, each costs 20000 S.P (100$). Securing the money for Yara’s medication added to the burdens of the already-financially-struggling family. Throughout the 6-month-treatment, Yara’s mother went to relatives, friends and charities for help.
The mother said that her daughter did not respond to the treatment and her growth stopped.
Yara’s psychological condition is not better than her physical one; she suffers from an acute psychological crisis, showing constant distraction and social withdrawal-especially during her period as she suffers from serious disturbance. The mother says Yara fails to cope with or to ease her condition and thus relapse into plaintive cry.
Yara became different from her peers; she is not like her friends, and she will never be. The suffering that Yara is going through is caused by Assad regime who deprived her of her father, of her house and of her school, and now it is depriving her of the childhood that she has not had enough time to complete.